Thursday, March 18, 2010

second time around

once in a while, there are second chances for some things. an ex-boss, an ex-gf/bf, an estranged family member, a second shot at something i didn't get the first time.

when it's a 50/50 thing, how to decide, whether to give it another go? or just move on and not look back? without a strong sense of intuition or "what feels right", i get stuck quite a bit. some random list of pros and cons can only go so far.

what would the person i respect the most do? what would the person i least respect do?

what would the most generous person i know do? what would the most selfish person i know do?

since i probably lie somewhere in that wide spectrum, it might help shed a little light on how to decide. perhaps. perhaps i could even try this on things the first time around.

or just flip a coin, and while it's in the air, see how i actually wished for it to land?