i think, most people are reasonably satisfied that enjoying life is their process and their goal - some kind of life that is simply less stressful than the ones we have right now.
some deeper hidden meaning behind is simply not necessary.
how we get to our target life and preferred state of mind, we figure it out along the way, and stopping to think deeply about it isn't generally a preferred method. (no time, overwhelmed, nowhere to start, there's no point)
so, leave me alone! i'm fine. i'll figure it out. don't force me to contemplate things that i won't understand anyway, it's not going to help me at this moment.
we are faced with an infinite sea of choices. with that, it's easier to put on blinders on, and do what everyone else is doing, or do what we have already been doing all along, even though we're not sure if it's going to get us to where we would like to be.
